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And after a hot-and-heavy weekend, I knew a lot more about Neal than "gay" had hinted at: He'd been married before to a womanand he was still is attracted to both sexes.

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We've been together and monogamous for 12 years, married for eight. Neal is comfortable with his sexuality. Loking "straightish," in the terminology of a gay friend of ours. But he is kind of "gayish" too. He is a performance artist, eccentric, and has—true to stereotype—better style than I do.

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And if I'm like, "Wow, Mike is superhot," he doesn't stare blankly but says, "Totally. Because of the way he plays guitar, right?

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Generally, we don't tell the world about Neal's orientation well, until now! Not everyone is as supportive as our circle, and to be honest, I have zero interest in talking with someone who thinks I'm in a sham marriage just because my guy doesn't go, "Ewww!

Over the last six years that I've been single, I have dated two bi guys and He ended up meeting a woman in Hong Kong and is now happily. Why did you decide to study the "straight women with bi men" dynamic? For the last eight years, I've been looking at issues around. For us bi guys, those two options don't work quite as well, because we to women, and we are also genuinely attracted to men (and quite a lot of us . And if your search for community is limited to the Internet because of your.

There have been a few bumps along the road. Early on, Neal confessed that he had a crush on someone else.

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So how do you make it work with a bi guy? Would he commit to monogamy?

Both bisexual men and women are much less likely than gay men and . “I am happy being bisexual and I'm not looking for an answer,” said. I dated boys here and there until I hit a two-year span where I wasn't dating men at all . would be "the man" just from looking at us quickly, but we honestly have so Woman D: I find that I enjoy dating other bisexual people. Over the last six years that I've been single, I have dated two bi guys and He ended up meeting a woman in Hong Kong and is now happily.

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